Dharmambal Amma
Savitha, my friend, gave me a story. She is the great-granddaughter of this incredible woman. Daughter’s daughter’s daughter … its a rich heritage to have running through your veins. I empathise here … I have a similar lineage. It makes me – humble. Savitha and I – we share a lot – family, a love of nature, a love for photography, a love of language … and now we discover this … a strong matriarchal bloodline! Such are the fine threads and knots that create this rich tapestry called friendship.
Dharmambal Amma. A traditional name, a traditional lady. Widowed early and kept to the rules imposed by society on Hindu widows – saffron-beige saree, no blouse, no ornamentation of any kind … life was difficult for widows four generations ago. Eight children. Seven dead. The eighth born after she was widowed. She outlived this one too. And a son in law and four grandchildren. She lived to be a 100.
Such times produced grit in a woman. They were strong in every sense of the word. Physically, emotionally and morally. There were no false or half baked notions of right and wrong. black and white. They knew that greys existed. They saw life for what it was and they knew what they had to do to deal with it. And they did it. They knew that home and hearth were what made the world a better or worse place.
And they were phenomenal cooks. There was no nonsense about their ingredients or methods or equipment. There was no sophistication and nothing exotic. The food we eat today at home – delicious, nutritious and comforting – the food we NEED to keep us happy – these traditional recipes have been handed down by generations of such women.
Savitha says her great-grandmother was “an amazing woman who taught me a lot, not just the kootu”. But here she shares with us this recipe. We have converted “hand and eye” measures to more specific terms. But as any who has ever cooked will agree with me – the only way to get that perfect flavour is to add a pinch here and a drop there!
Beans Kootu
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Thank you.
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Found this very interesting! Loved the beans kootu recipe. I grew up in a very Iyengar household where this dish was a staple! Talking about Matriarchs, my own memories of my grandmothers being strong and resilient resonates with me. Something that stayed with me all these years!
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Yes Sheela, we are so fortunate. Sometimes it takes a sudden story like this to step back in time, count our blessings and thank our stars.
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The synopsis of the life sketch of an extrordinary Woman written wonderfully by Swati. The condition in which that lady lived must have been very trying. But the strong faith in God would have infused courage and confidence in her. The Koottu also seems to be some thing different and great. May God bless her lineage with all the Best.
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Thank you. The lineage is truly fantastic! As is the Kootu. It’s simple to cook, has basic ingredients, quick to make, nutritious and delicious!
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Wonderful
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Thank-you David. There is a bit of history in everything and everywhere … Sometimes the stories just come to you … I was blessed to get this one.
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Wow! It’s amazing when you read about some so close to you. You realise what you had and thank your blessings. My Dhamma (that’s what we called her) was an epitome of womanhood. Honey, thank you. For bringing her alive for me once again.
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Savitha, this is your story. I just put the words together. So thank YOU! And please, may I request your wonderful Mother’s response? I have not met her mother or grand-mother. But having met and got to know you both, I am sure the loss is entirely mine.
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I loved this post. Sounds like an amazing person. May her strength live long through her lineage.
I will definitely try this recipe out.
More about Dharmambal amma will make good reading.
Hugs ☺
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Yes, Radhika, she must have been. But them you come from a fantastic blood line too.cherish it, chronicle it, most of all live by the strength of that blood.
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Lovely
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Thank-you!
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